"It (love) is not rude. It is not self-seeking...." I Corinthians 13:5
What are you seeking?
Would you know if you found it?
What is your life centered on?
If you were going to write your autobiography, what would be the theme of that book?
Who are you trying to impress with your life?
Who do you want to please?
Who are you serving?
Who are you working for?
Who are you most concerned about?
Self-seeking is the default setting for your life.
It's your life, why not live to please yourself?
Why not do what pleases you?
Why not serve your own needs and desires?
Why not work to get the best for yourself?
After all, didn't Jesus say, "Love your neighbor AS YOURSELF?"
There is a simple answer.
Do you know what it is?