"Blessed is the one who does not walk in step with the wicked or stand in the way that sinners take or sit in the company of mockers" Psalm 1:1
If you want to be blessed by God you must find a place in God's will. This verse gives some insights on how to do that.
First, be careful who you believe - "Blessed is the one who does not walk in step with the wicked ...."
It is hard to get good advice from bad people. You are not likely to get godly advice from and ungodly person. How can you get trustworthy counsel from a person you can't trust?
Before you believe something ask yourself, "What does the Bible say?"
Be careful who you listen to. Ask yourself, "What is their life like?"
What are you filling your mind with? Always ask, "Can God honor this?"
Second, be careful how you behave - "....or stand in the way that sinners take...."
The old saying is, "Birds of a feather flock together." You will be judged by the company you keep.
If you are committed to doing the right thing you will not want to spend time with the wrong people.
Are the people you spend the most time with lifting you up or are they pulling you down? Do they draw you closer to God or do they pull you away?
Sow a thought and you reap and act;
Sow an act, and you reap a habit;
Sow a habit, and you reap a character;
Sow a character, and you reap a destiny.
If the friends you spend the most time with can impact your destiny, what sort of friends should you choose? Are they exhibiting the sort of behavior God can bless? Are they helping or hindering your behavior?
Third, be careful whom you have for buddies - "or sit in the company of mockers"
If you want God's blessing, why would you develop close friendships with people who God is not able to bless? Wouldn't you be better off finding friends who share your faith and your values?
The easiest thing in the world is to be negative, and cynical, and sarcastic. It doesn't take a spiritual giant to recognize problems, but it does take a person of faith and conviction to come with ideas to solve them. If you want to have a positive attitude and a positive perspective on life, why would you spend your time around cynical and negative people?
If you want to be blessed and delivered from the struggles with sin in your life, some things need to be done to help you live in God's will, and learn in God's Word, and love in God's way.
Get wise godly counsel so you will believe right. Get grounded in God's Word so you will behave right. Get godly friends who can encourage and edify you in your faith.
Who are you listening to?
What are you learning from?
Who are you hanging around with?